Thursday, October 10, 2013

Daddy Blog from The Low Country

Back on Rainbow Row!  Farmers market in Marion Square! Fresh squeezed lemonade with shrimp and grits!  We were finally on vacation in South Carolina y'all!   It's Daddy's turn to blog, y'all.  It was a full 10 hours straight of a crazy mommy singing songs and dancing in the backseat for the sake of entertainment of her 6 month old, while a calm, cool collected Rooney and I navigated us through 5 states to the east coast.  Things we learned on the road: 1) I make a surprisingly excellent elephant noise 2) Shelley must be pretty hilarious when she reads the peek-a-boo book (per Lilah) 3) Eastern Kentucky fulfills all stereotypes about it 4) The Smoky mountains are NOT the Rocky mountains, but are beautiful in their own right  5) Baby Benadryl might be in order next time.

We started off our trip with a relaxing morning at the Charleston farmer market seeing all the fresh produce, home cooking and enjoying the fresh sea air breeze.  Shelley's parents and my parents flew in later that day (ironically, just in time to watch the Huskers stomp down South Dakota State).  The 8 of us (Rooney included) had such a fabulous time, we never wanted to go back home.  Dinners out consisted of more adventurous low country eats such as Grouper Dafuskie (it took Shelley many times to pronounce this one), fresh oysters, the biggest fresh shrimp I've ever seen, fried green tomatoes, fried okra, she-crab soup, shrimp 'n grits, bread pudding, collard greens, chicken and waffles,and all the southern favorites.  Shelley was thrilled to tour a plantation where the movie the Notebook was filmed and where Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds got married... not sure who they are, but it happened. 

We then made our way down to Beaufort to see Heidi (Shelley's cousin) and Kyle (soon to be in the family). Kyle, being the true southern gentleman he is, decided he must take us Yanks out boating for porpoise (true name for what we call dolphins) spotting, beer drinking, and fun times. We had a great time cruising the intercoastal waterway and enjoying the laid-back, southern way of life. We could truly get used to that! Lilah loved the boat ride, and Rooney about pooped his pants he was so nervous. We then headed to Hilton Head Island for the beach and more relaxation.

We rented a large vacation home in HH with suffleboard, pool, hot tub and everything we need to live in the life of luxury. Lilah dug the hot tub and pool, and so did we. She was spoiled rotten with grandparent attention and love (we are so screwed when we get home). We took a trip down to Savannah, GA for a day. It was as beautiful as the movies portray. I don't think Lilah enjoyed as much since she blew out her diaper 5 min into an hour long trolley ride and then had to change her in front gawking tourists. Needless to say, us "Northerners" are not allowed back on that trolley again.

Overall great trip and Lilah did spectacular. She has now been in 10 states and only 6 months old. We have a haunting feeling that these 10 hour car rides are just going to get worse over time. We might have to teach Rooney to entertain her.


200+ old Live Oaks. 88 in all, 45 on left, 43 on right (two destroyed by lightning)





Lilah enjoying some Heidi time

Kyle the navigator extraordinaire.

Wow, this is big bathtub

I'm spoiled

HOT TUB!

Marion Square market in Charleston, listening to tunes and fillin our bellies

Check out the Farmall! Rick and Ben were salivating.
Alligators anyone?

Look Ma, I'm touring

Live Oaks with spanish moss on a gorgeous plantation.

Wait, this is my bathtub. You can't contain me!

Down by the beach, boooyyyyyy!


I look good



Ben dancing around with Rooney

Sunday, September 8, 2013

Crab Apples

Miss Cookie Bear is now 5 months old!  We can't believe how we let the time get away from us!  She is changing so fast!  She is now grabbing her toes, getting up on her knees, and sitting up like a little lady.  Lilah is really starting to check to make sure her mom and dad are close and cries out if we leave the room.  She will let other people hold her if we're close, otherwise she's starting to get picky.  She has big beautiful blue eyes that are inquisitive and happy.  We love her more everyday!  We still have not mastered any semblance of a "routine" and sadly her sleep schedule is a disaster.  But we are more than happy to go cuddle that little sweet girl in the middle of the night, even if it's driving our coffee budget up!  My 5 month photo shoot did not go well.  Lilah was not in a modeling mood, but Rooney sure was.

Rooney at the ready

Rooney giving his fiercest face, Lilah needs to learn fierce faces

See?  I try.  It's still pretty cute.

Having some attention problems

Mom, why am I here again?

Lilah got to visit Anderson Orchard south of Indianapolis this weekend.  We loved it!  So many acres of trees and 16 varieties of apples.  We ended up getting a peck (not a bushel, just a peck), an apple cider slushie and an elephant ear.   The apples were fantastic and we loved grabbing them right off the trees!  Lilah who LOVES being outside had no complaints the entire trip!  It was a splendid weekend and some of the first family time we've had together in a few weeks!

Beautiful Orchard

Nelson Family picking apples


Our friends hosted Crab Fest 2013 at our house and it was awesome.  It consists of coating your outdoor table in newspaper and eating cooked shelled crab with your hands and a blunt object.  That's it.  There also is a small prize for whoever has the biggest pile of crab in front of them at the end of the night.  It felt the like a day on the East Coast!  It was pretty tasty, but I kept thinking of Sebastian from The Little Mermaid and had to limit myself.  Ben ended up with cuts all over his lips... he is a determined crab eater!  Lilah made sure to wear her crab gear to put everyone in the spirit!
Crab Fest 2013


The Real Deal.


Too much cuteness during the crab fest.  A snuggly 10 week old puppy that wanted to cuddle with Lilah... we really did nothing else but watch these two for about 10 minutes.  It was bliss.
Puppies licking toes.  Puppies blocking toys.  Other curious puppies.  Puppy heaven.

Crab Gear, check. 

Husker Land and Travel Woes!

Well, it's happened!  College football is here and with that comes dressing the cutest person in your family in your favorite team stuff.  All Ben wanted to know on game day was if his baby was dressed in Husker gear.  Rooney never fit into the Husker jerseys we bought for him.  But on a brighter note, Rooney did lose 1 whole pound the last time we took him in for a haircut.  Yup.  One.  We did it!  After 3 years, he lost a pound!  Back to my point.  Lilah and I thought in honor of Trev being home from Afghanistan that we would venture back to Nebraska for a much needed visit.

Lil' Red

Lil Red and Gramma

Lil Red and Her Grandparents

I had been having small panic attacks for 2 weeks thinking of traveling alone with a squirmy 5 month old.    I was remembering stories of TSA making a poor mom try her own breast milk in security a few years ago when they were cracking down on liquids. Changing a diaper in an airplane restroom?  A whole plane of angry people if my infant screams the entire flight?  Breastfeeding on a plane?  Delays?  I decided I was a crazy person but that the trip was worth it!

We were set to go.  Other than both of us starting to get colds, we were ready.  I got home from work on the day Lilah and I were supposed to fly out to pack a few last minute items, feed the baby and head for airport when I discovered my first leg of the flight had been massively delayed out of Indianapolis.   The next hour and half consisted of me talking on my dying cell phone that was plugged into the wall in my kitchen with a very accented United Representative, dog barking, and Lilah crying.  I was going to miss my connection in Chicago that night, sleep in the Ohare airport with an infant and catch the flight the next am OR not go at all. No flights out of Indy for 2 days- all booked.  The last option was driving directly to meet my connection in Chicago, by myself, with Lilah... which left in 5 hrs.  It was Chicago or bust.  In one of the least sane moments of my life (very honestly.), I embarked on a mad dash speeding panic driving the 3.5 hrs to Chicago, alone with Lilah. I threw everything in my car, changed her diaper and we left.  I neglected to grab anything for me to eat or drink.  Almost out of gas.  Phone nearly dead and no car charger.  It was going to be a great trip!!  I sent Ben a cryptic text, not wanting him to know what I was doing, or that I was seriously insane.  I filled with gas as fast as I could and we went 15 over the speed limit the entire way.  I kept thinking of everything that could possibly go wrong- car breaks down, accidents, traffic jams in Chicago, getting lost with no phone, getting to airport but still missing flight....  I ate cough drops the entire way to keep my hungry stomach at ease.  Lilah slept the first 2 hrs (throwing off my master plan of her sleeping on the flight) but started to cry still with 1.5 hrs to go.  I somehow managed to feed her a bottle in her carseat and still drive on the interstate in Chicago, even I was a little bit impressed, and the crisis was diverted.  I realized too late that there were about 4 tolls on my route I had chosen, and I had no cash.  I decided this was no time to worry about road improvements for the people of Chicago, so I sped through those all the toll stops!  With about an hr and 15 minutes to go, I pulled up in airport economy lot parking.  It was the size of small city.  I had no idea where to go, so I just grabbed my suitcase, carry on bag, diaper bag, car seat and infant and started walking.  I had no idea how to get out of this blasted lot to the airport.  Luckily, a lady walking by with her small efficiently packed luggage took pity on me, grabbed a bag and directed me to where to go.  We were on the monorail towards the terminals.  Still and hour left!  Every person who saw me thankfully took pity on me and carried either my luggage or bags while I hauled this chubby infant in her carseat and the rest of my luggage.  I thought O'Hare would be disastrous to get through.... I was so wrong.  It was Switzerland- fast, efficient and everyone was so nice!  We made it to our gate.... with 45 minutes to spare!!!!!!  We did it!!!!  The travel prayers you all sent worked and I thank you!  I was starving, thirsty, had to use the restroom, but we made it!!  Over the next 45 minutes, I learned 1) how to pee with an infant strapped to you and 2) how to non-chalantly eat a sandwhich with an infant strapped to you and wipe the crumbs out of your infants hair.  Let this be a lesson to you all on how not to travel. Lilah really is an amazing child and rolled with it all so well.  She was a gem on the flight and we made it back to Nebraska... so worth it!! :)

Our flight back was much less eventful!  Lilah did manage to spill my drink all over my two neighbors, cry most of the time and have a poopy blow-out in-air.  It was quite exciting for the two poor guys sitting on either side of me that were both college aged.  Excellent birth control for the next few years, I imagine.

Go Big Red!!!

First grass!

Really digging it

Nana and Papa

Someone loves no clothes!

Solids were ok, spoon was better

While back in Lincoln- we partied.  I went to the first homegame with my dad.  Saw Trevor and his girlfriend. Saw Ben's folks!  Got a pedicure.  Saw Allie, Iz and Heidi. Saw Frannie and Paul.  Saw Gigi, Uncle Ron and Joan.   Lilah tried solids for the first time!  We are still convincing her that her feet aren't a food group.  :)   And of course, enjoyed many missed moments with my parents at the Ponderosa.  I didn't mention that Lilah had a fever three of the four nights we were back, but that was peanuts compared to what we just went though to get there!

Monday, September 2, 2013

Splish Splash, I was Taking a Bath!


 There is a new bath in town.  It's big, yellow and quacks.  Lilah is a big fan.  It's a little easier than the sink for now, not to mention someone's chunky thighs don't fit in the sink anymore.  Rooney seems pretty happy that he's not the only one getting baths in the bathtub for now. 

Does this thing have bubble jets? Ducky is wondering.

There is no shortage of rolls on this little one!

Not big into sharing yet

Our beautiful little ray of sunshine is just amazing and growing so fast!  She is now almost sitting up on her own.  She also has started expressing frustration by blowing bubbles furiously, which just makes Ben and I laugh, which in turn makes Lilah smile.  She is grabbing at toys and gnawing on everything :)  Our house looks like a really messy version of Toys R Us.  People seem to be amazed when they visit how much baby stuff we have.  Five months in... I can't imagine the toy heap we'll be living in after 7 more!  I just can't get enough of Lilah though, and neither can her dad.  Even after she goes to bed, we just stand in her nursery and watch her together.  Absolute, complete, overwhelming love for this little gal.




4 Months Old!
Mid-session, Fell over

Pretty little Pookie Rose



I have been lucky enough to be reviewing job offers over the last few weeks and have been heavily weighing what I should do.  As much as I love both jobs and their stark differences, it mostly comes down to Lilah right now.  How can I be a better mommy and do my job too?  So, after many hours of lying awake... I think we've decided which job works best.  But more to come later.  I can't get too ahead of myself before it's all said and done :)  Being a working mommy can be very challenging sometimes, as many of you can readily identify with! 

This face makes it all worth it  :)