Sunday, September 8, 2013

Crab Apples

Miss Cookie Bear is now 5 months old!  We can't believe how we let the time get away from us!  She is changing so fast!  She is now grabbing her toes, getting up on her knees, and sitting up like a little lady.  Lilah is really starting to check to make sure her mom and dad are close and cries out if we leave the room.  She will let other people hold her if we're close, otherwise she's starting to get picky.  She has big beautiful blue eyes that are inquisitive and happy.  We love her more everyday!  We still have not mastered any semblance of a "routine" and sadly her sleep schedule is a disaster.  But we are more than happy to go cuddle that little sweet girl in the middle of the night, even if it's driving our coffee budget up!  My 5 month photo shoot did not go well.  Lilah was not in a modeling mood, but Rooney sure was.

Rooney at the ready

Rooney giving his fiercest face, Lilah needs to learn fierce faces

See?  I try.  It's still pretty cute.

Having some attention problems

Mom, why am I here again?

Lilah got to visit Anderson Orchard south of Indianapolis this weekend.  We loved it!  So many acres of trees and 16 varieties of apples.  We ended up getting a peck (not a bushel, just a peck), an apple cider slushie and an elephant ear.   The apples were fantastic and we loved grabbing them right off the trees!  Lilah who LOVES being outside had no complaints the entire trip!  It was a splendid weekend and some of the first family time we've had together in a few weeks!

Beautiful Orchard

Nelson Family picking apples


Our friends hosted Crab Fest 2013 at our house and it was awesome.  It consists of coating your outdoor table in newspaper and eating cooked shelled crab with your hands and a blunt object.  That's it.  There also is a small prize for whoever has the biggest pile of crab in front of them at the end of the night.  It felt the like a day on the East Coast!  It was pretty tasty, but I kept thinking of Sebastian from The Little Mermaid and had to limit myself.  Ben ended up with cuts all over his lips... he is a determined crab eater!  Lilah made sure to wear her crab gear to put everyone in the spirit!
Crab Fest 2013


The Real Deal.


Too much cuteness during the crab fest.  A snuggly 10 week old puppy that wanted to cuddle with Lilah... we really did nothing else but watch these two for about 10 minutes.  It was bliss.
Puppies licking toes.  Puppies blocking toys.  Other curious puppies.  Puppy heaven.

Crab Gear, check. 

Husker Land and Travel Woes!

Well, it's happened!  College football is here and with that comes dressing the cutest person in your family in your favorite team stuff.  All Ben wanted to know on game day was if his baby was dressed in Husker gear.  Rooney never fit into the Husker jerseys we bought for him.  But on a brighter note, Rooney did lose 1 whole pound the last time we took him in for a haircut.  Yup.  One.  We did it!  After 3 years, he lost a pound!  Back to my point.  Lilah and I thought in honor of Trev being home from Afghanistan that we would venture back to Nebraska for a much needed visit.

Lil' Red

Lil Red and Gramma

Lil Red and Her Grandparents

I had been having small panic attacks for 2 weeks thinking of traveling alone with a squirmy 5 month old.    I was remembering stories of TSA making a poor mom try her own breast milk in security a few years ago when they were cracking down on liquids. Changing a diaper in an airplane restroom?  A whole plane of angry people if my infant screams the entire flight?  Breastfeeding on a plane?  Delays?  I decided I was a crazy person but that the trip was worth it!

We were set to go.  Other than both of us starting to get colds, we were ready.  I got home from work on the day Lilah and I were supposed to fly out to pack a few last minute items, feed the baby and head for airport when I discovered my first leg of the flight had been massively delayed out of Indianapolis.   The next hour and half consisted of me talking on my dying cell phone that was plugged into the wall in my kitchen with a very accented United Representative, dog barking, and Lilah crying.  I was going to miss my connection in Chicago that night, sleep in the Ohare airport with an infant and catch the flight the next am OR not go at all. No flights out of Indy for 2 days- all booked.  The last option was driving directly to meet my connection in Chicago, by myself, with Lilah... which left in 5 hrs.  It was Chicago or bust.  In one of the least sane moments of my life (very honestly.), I embarked on a mad dash speeding panic driving the 3.5 hrs to Chicago, alone with Lilah. I threw everything in my car, changed her diaper and we left.  I neglected to grab anything for me to eat or drink.  Almost out of gas.  Phone nearly dead and no car charger.  It was going to be a great trip!!  I sent Ben a cryptic text, not wanting him to know what I was doing, or that I was seriously insane.  I filled with gas as fast as I could and we went 15 over the speed limit the entire way.  I kept thinking of everything that could possibly go wrong- car breaks down, accidents, traffic jams in Chicago, getting lost with no phone, getting to airport but still missing flight....  I ate cough drops the entire way to keep my hungry stomach at ease.  Lilah slept the first 2 hrs (throwing off my master plan of her sleeping on the flight) but started to cry still with 1.5 hrs to go.  I somehow managed to feed her a bottle in her carseat and still drive on the interstate in Chicago, even I was a little bit impressed, and the crisis was diverted.  I realized too late that there were about 4 tolls on my route I had chosen, and I had no cash.  I decided this was no time to worry about road improvements for the people of Chicago, so I sped through those all the toll stops!  With about an hr and 15 minutes to go, I pulled up in airport economy lot parking.  It was the size of small city.  I had no idea where to go, so I just grabbed my suitcase, carry on bag, diaper bag, car seat and infant and started walking.  I had no idea how to get out of this blasted lot to the airport.  Luckily, a lady walking by with her small efficiently packed luggage took pity on me, grabbed a bag and directed me to where to go.  We were on the monorail towards the terminals.  Still and hour left!  Every person who saw me thankfully took pity on me and carried either my luggage or bags while I hauled this chubby infant in her carseat and the rest of my luggage.  I thought O'Hare would be disastrous to get through.... I was so wrong.  It was Switzerland- fast, efficient and everyone was so nice!  We made it to our gate.... with 45 minutes to spare!!!!!!  We did it!!!!  The travel prayers you all sent worked and I thank you!  I was starving, thirsty, had to use the restroom, but we made it!!  Over the next 45 minutes, I learned 1) how to pee with an infant strapped to you and 2) how to non-chalantly eat a sandwhich with an infant strapped to you and wipe the crumbs out of your infants hair.  Let this be a lesson to you all on how not to travel. Lilah really is an amazing child and rolled with it all so well.  She was a gem on the flight and we made it back to Nebraska... so worth it!! :)

Our flight back was much less eventful!  Lilah did manage to spill my drink all over my two neighbors, cry most of the time and have a poopy blow-out in-air.  It was quite exciting for the two poor guys sitting on either side of me that were both college aged.  Excellent birth control for the next few years, I imagine.

Go Big Red!!!

First grass!

Really digging it

Nana and Papa

Someone loves no clothes!

Solids were ok, spoon was better

While back in Lincoln- we partied.  I went to the first homegame with my dad.  Saw Trevor and his girlfriend. Saw Ben's folks!  Got a pedicure.  Saw Allie, Iz and Heidi. Saw Frannie and Paul.  Saw Gigi, Uncle Ron and Joan.   Lilah tried solids for the first time!  We are still convincing her that her feet aren't a food group.  :)   And of course, enjoyed many missed moments with my parents at the Ponderosa.  I didn't mention that Lilah had a fever three of the four nights we were back, but that was peanuts compared to what we just went though to get there!

Monday, September 2, 2013

Splish Splash, I was Taking a Bath!


 There is a new bath in town.  It's big, yellow and quacks.  Lilah is a big fan.  It's a little easier than the sink for now, not to mention someone's chunky thighs don't fit in the sink anymore.  Rooney seems pretty happy that he's not the only one getting baths in the bathtub for now. 

Does this thing have bubble jets? Ducky is wondering.

There is no shortage of rolls on this little one!

Not big into sharing yet

Our beautiful little ray of sunshine is just amazing and growing so fast!  She is now almost sitting up on her own.  She also has started expressing frustration by blowing bubbles furiously, which just makes Ben and I laugh, which in turn makes Lilah smile.  She is grabbing at toys and gnawing on everything :)  Our house looks like a really messy version of Toys R Us.  People seem to be amazed when they visit how much baby stuff we have.  Five months in... I can't imagine the toy heap we'll be living in after 7 more!  I just can't get enough of Lilah though, and neither can her dad.  Even after she goes to bed, we just stand in her nursery and watch her together.  Absolute, complete, overwhelming love for this little gal.




4 Months Old!
Mid-session, Fell over

Pretty little Pookie Rose



I have been lucky enough to be reviewing job offers over the last few weeks and have been heavily weighing what I should do.  As much as I love both jobs and their stark differences, it mostly comes down to Lilah right now.  How can I be a better mommy and do my job too?  So, after many hours of lying awake... I think we've decided which job works best.  But more to come later.  I can't get too ahead of myself before it's all said and done :)  Being a working mommy can be very challenging sometimes, as many of you can readily identify with! 

This face makes it all worth it  :)







Saturday, August 24, 2013

Nanas, Cops, Uncles & Swim Caps

Well, it's been a crazy last few weeks.  If my hair doesn't have triple the amount of gray in it than it did before, something is not physiologically sound in my body.  We have had two fantastic visitors, swimming time, more job interviews, job offers, lots and lots of working, and a whole lot of craziness in between.  It's like an episode of COPS around here.

I was in one of my usual days where I tear around the hospital trying to see patients, talk to parents, put in orders, write notes, pump and get to clinic by 1pm.  The pumping is easily the part that gets dropped when I'm busy, so it came time for me to leave the North Hospital and speed across town to my clinic in a different suburb 40 minutes away.  I was desperate, needed lunch and had 15 minutes to drive a 40 minute drive.  So I grabbed some caffeine from the doctor's lounge and prepared to pump while driving.  I have never pumped while driving, there's probably a good reason for this.  But last Tuesday, I had no other choice.  So I put on my fancy pumping bra, hooked my black pumping bag and tubing and pumped while driving on the interstate to my clinic.  I realized a few miles in that my pop was still on top of the car... dang it.  I also noticed a cop sitting on the side of the interstate waving at my car to pull over.  I started to lane change to pull over, when by a miracle of God another car pulled over in front of me and the cop pulled up behind them.... YES!!!!!  Had I been pulled over, I envision a conversation sort of along these lines: "Yes Officer, Those are my Breast Pump Flanges I'm wearing.  Yes, I realize there is tubing connected to my chest going into a small back bag on the passenger seat.  No, I'm not a suicide bomber.  No, I have not ever thought what would happen if my airbag deployed while I'm wearing flanges.  Yes, that is my pop sitting on the car roof."  Don't even worry about the ticket for indecent exposure and who knows what else.  As if my close call didn't cut it.  I got pulled over exactly 7 days later while taking Deb to the airport.... yeah.  You can't make this stuff up.  Deb and I were gabbing away with Lilah hanging in the backseat (restrained in her car seat, of course!) and then I see the cherries flashing behind me.  I really had no idea what I was being pulled over for... maybe just a tail light out.  I proceeded to get lectured from the officer about speeding (and he was not buying that "I really had no idea I was speeding", but I really didn't).  So, I got a speeding ticket from the airport police... not even a real one since it was just airport police(which my mother-in-law graciously paid... thanks, Deb!).  Woo hoo!  But enough with my law enforcement run-ins!

Lilah got to hang out with her Nana (Ben's mom) for a week and a half this month, which was extremely helpful!  She loved it and got used to having a "Princess Routine".  If you're not familiar with a Princess Routine, it consists of having a grandma spoil you and dote on you all day every day for 12 days straight.  I wish we could all have one!!  The mom and dad of the house also got spoiled with many baked good as well, in addition to having clean dishes and laundry.  Rooney made out like a bandit- extra treats, long walks and someone who loves to wrestle with him!  It was wonderful!  While Nana was here, we got to swim and try out Lilah's new gift- a very fancy swim cap.  I don't know that I've ever seen one modeled quite so well! 
Functional and fancy

She takes modeling very seriously

Mom had fun picking this suit out :)

Nana Pool Time

Gilligan's adorable side-kick

The Pool Crew

We also enjoyed time downtown on the canal, eating out and eating ice cream at our favorite- Orange Leaf!

Downtown Canal

This is a face that just tasted Snickerdoodle ice cream

Happy faces after ice cream... is there anything better?

Another very important visitor pulled up after a LONG awaited arrival :)  Uncle Trevor made it home from Afghanistan 3 days ago!  What a wonderful site to see after 9 months of praying for his safety!  I think no one was as happy as Trevor to be back in the USA though.  He got to meet his niece finally and take some serious naps.  Uncle Trevor is now in full swing competition with Uncle Tyler for funniest face maker.  They are both neck and neck.  Lilah will announce a winner at Christmas.  Somehow, both uncles have now visited and both gotten away without changing a single diaper :)  We LOVED having him with us for a few short days and got to have a little fun too!

Happy to be home!

Dinner at Flatwater Grille to celebrate!

Monday, July 29, 2013

Rocking, and more importantly, Rolling

Ben is really getting his soccer fill this week.  Last night was the Gold Cup (nice job, USA!).  He watched it with his favorite little soccer fan who decided to dress herself in her Manchester United Jersey.  Smart girl.  Later this week, we're seeing Chelsea play Inter Milan in Indianapolis!  Whoop whoop!  Should be fun!

Who loves Man U?!
Sad news: 
1.  I was asked by a little girl in our neighborhood who my baby daddy was a few days ago while I was on a walk with Pookie Rose.  Sadness.  Oh baby daddies.
2. Cake Boss is coming to Indianapolis tomorrow to give away 10,000 free cakes tomorrow.  I have to work all day.  NOT COOL!!!

We be rock 'n and rollin' around here.  Lilah not only rolled the first time a few days ago, but she hasn't stopped.  We thought it was so amazingly cute the first few times she did it... we had no idea it would be less cute when she did it all the time in the middle of the night and ended up face down and screaming.  She hasn't mastered rolling the other direction, so she ends up with her face in the carpet and she is not happy about it.   But we are relieved she has met her milestone on time! Phew!  Now we look forward to what position we might find her in bed as she squirms in every odd direction from the one we started in.  Watch out, Rooney... this one's on the move!  Hide your bones!



Lilah passed out in her exersaucer the other night.  This probably has nothing to do with the fact that we don't have some sort of a regular schedule for her.  She was sleeping about 6 hours a day at daycare and trying  to play all night.  Ben and I would hear her randomly in the middle of the night fake coughing and laughing at her mobile on the monitor.  Yikes.  We have issues.

Lack of schedule

Rooney totally remembers those passed out in exersaucer days

To celebrate our fifth wedding anniversary, Ben and I did a little hiking trip at Turkey Run State Park.  It's beautiful and has a gorgeous canyon with a creek running down it that you have to climb.  Rooney is a another creature in that place... in fact, I can't even get a picture of him he runs around so fast.  We just let him off leash for the whole thing... there's really no point in letting him drag us up the whole thing.  There are some tricky portions, so props to Ben for making sure he and Lilah safely got through it!  So much fun!  And so much sand and mud in our car!  Love you, Ben!  It's been an amazing five years... can't wait for the next fifty! :)

The covered bridge at the start of Sugar Creek

Beginning of the cavern




Getting harder!

Flash the Goldendoodle